Do you believe in the language of love? Sorry if you’re reading this with a recent heartbreak. In fact, if you have had a recent heartbreak, it’s probably best to skip this article – don’t try to make things worse for yourself.
Love is a universal emotion. It’s celebrated and expressed uniquely across various cultures and traditions globally. And, yes, the feeling of love is a common human experience, but how it is celebrated and honored can vary greatly.
Below, we’ll talk about the language of love and how different cultures celebrate it.
Romantic Traditions Across Cultures
Every culture has its own set of romantic traditions. They reflect its values and societal norms.
In Japan, for example, Valentine’s Day is celebrated uniquely. Women give chocolates to men as a gesture of love or friendship, and men return the favor on White Day, a month later.
Or, randomly, in Wales, love is traditionally expressed through the giving of hand-carved wooden spoons. It’s a practice that dates back to the 17th century. These spoons, known as “lovespoons,” are intricately designed – but we’d say this is more of a dying tradition now.
Marriage and Union Ceremonies Worldwide
Marriage ceremonies are perhaps the most universal celebration of love – of course, until they dramatically end. But at the time, they’re one of the days filled with the most love you’ll ever experience. They vary from one culture to another.
In India, weddings are grand, vibrant affairs with numerous rituals symbolizing the union, love, and commitment between the couple. They often last several days.
In contrast, Nordic countries might celebrate love through more subdued and nature-infused ceremonies. They emphasize simplicity, nature, and deep personal connections.
Gifts of Love
Who doesn’t love a present now and then – and it doesn’t have to be on Valentine’s Day!
Gift-giving is a common love language in every culture and religion. They’ll often use symbols with deep spiritual or cultural significance – or the good ol’ heart symbol.
In Judaism, one popular gift symbolizing love and protection is Hamsa jewelry. The hamsa hand – symbolic of protection – is believed to bring its wearer happiness, luck, health, and good fortune.
In Christianity, the cross is a potent symbol of love and sacrifice. People exchange it as a token of faith and deep affection. Cross pendants or other forms of cross-themed jewelry can signify a shared bond in faith – and some people consider that romantic.
You’ll find gifts like this across all cultures and religions.
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Festivals of Love Around the Globe
Many cultures have specific festivals dedicated to celebrating love. Each has its customs and traditions that we think are truly beautiful. In Brazil, “Dia dos Namorados” or “Lovers’ Day,” is celebrated on June 12th every year. There’s music, poetry, and gifts exchanged between couples.
In China, the Qixi Festival, known as the Chinese Valentine’s Day, is celebrated by offering fruits and flowers to the mythical figures of Zhinü and Niulang. And in the UK, US, and Australia, there’s Valentine’s Day.
The language of love is as diverse as the world’s cultures. Each offers a unique expression and celebration of this universal emotion. And, as you can see from this article, each culture definitely does celebrate it differently. And, lately, we’re even going deep into love languages – but that’s a discussion for another article. Instead, we’ll finish by asking you what your favorite language of love is.
